January 2011
11 posts
“Anyone who loses respect for someone on the basis of age has a problem. Slan.”
– After a day of dealing with a bitch of a source, my Irish editor always knows just what to say.
Jan 28th
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Reading-a-Bad-Feminist Confessions: Part 3 of an... →
Received my first-ever reader request today (“Plz write on the new Lena Chen plz plz plz”), just like a real blogger! It’s always nice when you guys come up with the topics for me; plus your comments give me an ego boost! Anyway, given how much the Internet has already said on the topic of troll-victim empowerment, I can only assume my BFF reader is referring to LC’s post...
Jan 28th
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Jan 23rd
“It sounds so sad when you put it like that.”
– Two people, actually, in response to two different evaluations of life/situations I gave during casual conversations this week, neither of which I found particularly sad or, rather, not any sadder than anything else.  How far am I now from understanding how I am actually coming off?  Is fiercely...
Jan 13th
'Forget a Desk Job: Young foodies are betting that... →
“Bespoke s’mores”? Fucking really, “bespoke s’mores”?
Jan 12th
On work
From boss: I saw your email volunteering to take extra weekend on-call/clips shifts. Be careful what you wish for. This weekend BD received several calls from a man who repeatedly demanded to speak with someone in charge, and when BD wouldn’t put him through without a reason for the call, he claimed he was going to come to campus and start shooting people. The cops traced the call to New...
Jan 10th
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“Sensitivity in its highest form is intelligence. Without sensitivity to...”
– Jiddu Krishnamurti - The Collected Works Volume XV (via adsertoris) (via towardsthehuman) Well this is too true and too depressing today. Not only am I losing my sensitivity, I am being moved Milton-style to another office so a new hire a few pay grades above me can poach mine. My boss’s...
Jan 7th
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Listen:
Just because we had one stoned-ass conversation about performativity and the erotic nature of friendship does NOT mean you can send me grainy SMS photos of yourself and multiple texts with the phrase “open-mouth kiss[ed].” Like WHAT is with dudes thinking their cell phones are a Safe Place?
Jan 5th
“The only way to write something good is to write... →
Poynter offers some simple but important insights into the writing life from William Zinsser. These lines struck me as very astute: A lack of confidence is one of the biggest obstacles to good writing, Zinsser said. As a teacher, he has been surprised to see how many of his students lack confidence — especially his female students. “I think this society, for all its famous freedoms,...
Jan 4th
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On restlessness
I hate coming to work but I love being at work. I’m only productive in the mornings but find it impossible to wake up every day. What should I want to get out of this position? I wish performance reviews were really just about performance. I saw a tiny plane flying over the most beautiful sunset today; I thought it was bug on my window and tried to smash it against the glass. I can’t...
Jan 3rd
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Jan 2nd